Quote from Brien Myles Villamiel on February 27, 2024, 7:18 pm

Quote from Alex Filamor on February 12, 2024, 9:45 pm

(1) How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

• I don't observe or check whether it is only me or the Holy Spirit, what I do know is that the Holy Spirit always guides me in everything that I do. Sometimes I have this tendency to think I cannot do it or I am not as talented or gifted compared to other brothers. When that kicks in I immediately invoke the Power of the Holy Spirit to be with me and calm myself because I know it's the work of the devil to lose my focus.

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

• This is what the devil wants to inject into us, PRIDE/YABANG. The moment we succeed in what we are doing, the natural next thing to happen is all praise and acknowledgment from the people around us. This is what we need to keep our guard always. I learned to accept and acknowledge every success that I have and simply say thank you and welcome instead of always commenting on "hindi naman or its not me its the LORD"

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

• There will always be a situation where sometimes you want a "quick fix" or "better approach" without consulting your Pastoral Leader or Leader above you. "Kaya ko naman scenario" "been there, done that",  "take it from me" These are the "comforting words" of the enemy that are being injected into our minds because he knows that we are already a leader. Let us be very careful, remember the enemy will never stop to bring a good man down.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

• Prayers🙏🏻, Prayers🙏🏻 and Prayers🙏🏻 this is an effective tool to protect us from the evil works.
• Spend time to fellowship with fellow leaders, and build up one another.
• Always live in the light, and share your struggles, difficulties, challenges, and most especially your victories.

hi Alex, as one of the younger members in the Gold's Club (those who just reached 50), mukhang marami ka na rin napagdaanan in your journey... through CYA, UD, Staffer, Husband and Father, District Servant, PL, now SL! thank you for sharing your insights!

am honored to be in your company as we learn and encourage one another in our service as Senior Leaders. sabi nga natin KKBBH(B)!

Quote from Jordan Echague on February 28, 2024, 10:24 am

Quote from Henry Salim on February 17, 2024, 12:48 pm

How stable and how solid is your trust and allegiance to Jesus? Consider the following factors:

How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

I know I am trusting in the Holy Spirit when I deliberately follow the leading of the Spirit to do something that is beyond my known skill set and comfort zone. I donot discount nor not attribute to the Holy Spirit the work I do that comes relatively easy because I believe everything, including my talents, resources and abilities, are from Him. It is just, I feel a certain nervous excitement in the former knowing I am about to step out and the Lord will show His hand to me.

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for? 

We have to watch out not to be intoxicated with success. As we become more and more successful and fruitful in our work, there is a tendency to start believing that this is a result of how good we are. I personally have a tendency to tell God that there are things that He does not need to bother about because I got it handled. Somehow I feel the Lord is somebody like us who has a lot on His mind and I don’t want to add to those things.  I can just imagine Him smiling at me and saying how foolish I am. I have to always be reminded that God is without limits. He can take on everything. Nothing is trivial or too small for Him. I am part of His creation and as such I am an extension of His grace. He is the source and I am only a conduit.

 

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands? 

I have to remind myself to lift everything in prayer. I am a manager by profession so I manage. I see objectives, resources, strategy, outcome. My tendency is to see the chessboard, the chess pieces and the possible moves. I mainly assist my coordinator w administrative and organizational matter which I like because it natural to me. I am also  low maintenance worker. You tell me what needs to be done and I get it done with no fuss. I go on autopilot, which kinda leaves the pilot (Jesus) out of the equation. I have to tell myself to constantly check in with Jesus, the source of what needs to be done and the things needed to get it done.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

During the days, when men go to war. Leaders lift up their standard and the soldiers rally around it.  As long as they see the standard, they continue to fight shoulder to shoulder inspite of fear and danger. Our Lord is our standard, I would greatly benefit from reminders to look up so I can continue to do the work before me and not be anxious, afraid, discouraged and confused. Likewise, it is good to have things like this to also remind me that I am not alone and that I have likeminded brothers working with me side by side.

 

 

As workers in God's vineyard, may we also rely on His Spirit to fill the void of our humanity. 

It's true that there is a tendency to take the Holy Spirit for granted in times of "success". Probably when we hear and enjoy the praises given to our egos. 

But in our accountability to one another and constant dialogue with the Lord through prayer, may we remain rooted and humble. 

Praying for you my brother and thank you for your insights.

Quote from Henry Salim on February 28, 2024, 7:45 pm

Quote from Alex Filamor on February 12, 2024, 9:45 pm

(1) How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

• I don't observe or check whether it is only me or the Holy Spirit, what I do know is that the Holy Spirit always guides me in everything that I do. Sometimes I have this tendency to think I cannot do it or I am not as talented or gifted compared to other brothers. When that kicks in I immediately invoke the Power of the Holy Spirit to be with me and calm myself because I know it's the work of the devil to lose my focus.

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

• This is what the devil wants to inject into us, PRIDE/YABANG. The moment we succeed in what we are doing, the natural next thing to happen is all praise and acknowledgment from the people around us. This is what we need to keep our guard always. I learned to accept and acknowledge every success that I have and simply say thank you and welcome instead of always commenting on "hindi naman or its not me its the LORD"

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

• There will always be a situation where sometimes you want a "quick fix" or "better approach" without consulting your Pastoral Leader or Leader above you. "Kaya ko naman scenario" "been there, done that",  "take it from me" These are the "comforting words" of the enemy that are being injected into our minds because he knows that we are already a leader. Let us be very careful, remember the enemy will never stop to bring a good man down.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

• Prayers🙏🏻, Prayers🙏🏻 and Prayers🙏🏻 this is an effective tool to protect us from the evil works.
• Spend time to fellowship with fellow leaders, and build up one another.
• Always live in the light, and share your struggles, difficulties, challenges, and most especially your victories.

Good PM bro, 

tama ka. the devil cannot stop the flow of grace. so he does the next best thing. he makes us believe that all we have done is because of who we are.  we become conceited and stray away from God.  we have to constantly remind ourselves that it is all Him. to do this we need to constantly pray and be around people who will pray w us and always remind us of this truth.

God bless.

Quote from Henry Salim on February 28, 2024, 7:53 pm

Quote from James Labayo on February 10, 2024, 10:59 am

Brothers, allow me to present my views by responding to the reflection guides one by one.

(1) How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

Trusting in the Holy Spirit usually happens whenever I am focused on the Lord and not me. It involves being open to His leading, offering the mission that is before me and praying at all times. The latter is whenever I am focused on myself and not the Lord. Most of the time, one will know if it is the Holy Spirit’s or oneself after the event. Everything is clearer in hindsight.

Strengths and abilities are God’s gift. It is not a bad thing to rely on my own strength as long as God is acknowledged and the act will glorify Him.

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

We need to watch out for is self-glorification. A sense of being superior over God. We can also call it self-entitlement. One example is thinking that your prayer intentions should always be answered positively by God because you deserved it. Another example is being proud over one’s accomplishment and thinking lowly of others.

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

This example does not usually happen to me. It is when you have MWG meetings and during MG discussions, you think that you alone can handle all the concerns of the members. Prayer becomes an option once everything fails.

Normally, while people are sharing, I pray silently and asks God what He wants me to say to the sharer afterwards.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

To end, I appeal that we lead by example. Living our Ligaya way of life is difficult more so serving in it. I need model brother leaders who I can emulate. Just like everyone, through the years, God allowed me to be formed through different brothers and sisters in community. May we be together in this journey Brothers!

Magandang gabi bro,

if there is one thing that i will remember in the thoughts that you shared, it is to always check my intentions.  of course we all want to do good in our service, but what you said is true.  everything that we do should  bring glory to our God. thank you for your example and reminder.

God bless.

Quote from James Labayo on February 10, 2024, 10:59 am

Brothers, allow me to present my views by responding to the reflection guides one by one.

(1) How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

Trusting in the Holy Spirit usually happens whenever I am focused on the Lord and not me. It involves being open to His leading, offering the mission that is before me and praying at all times. The latter is whenever I am focused on myself and not the Lord. Most of the time, one will know if it is the Holy Spirit’s or oneself after the event. Everything is clearer in hindsight.

Strengths and abilities are God’s gift. It is not a bad thing to rely on my own strength as long as God is acknowledged and the act will glorify Him.

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

We need to watch out for is self-glorification. A sense of being superior over God. We can also call it self-entitlement. One example is thinking that your prayer intentions should always be answered positively by God because you deserved it. Another example is being proud over one’s accomplishment and thinking lowly of others.

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

This example does not usually happen to me. It is when you have MWG meetings and during MG discussions, you think that you alone can handle all the concerns of the members. Prayer becomes an option once everything fails.

Normally, while people are sharing, I pray silently and asks God what He wants me to say to the sharer afterwards.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

To end, I appeal that we lead by example. Living our Ligaya way of life is difficult more so serving in it. I need model brother leaders who I can emulate. Just like everyone, through the years, God allowed me to be formed through different brothers and sisters in community. May we be together in this journey Brothers!

 

Quote from Erick Flores on February 29, 2024, 12:18 am

Quote from Jordan Echague on February 9, 2024, 6:03 pm

Since I am an emotional person, relating to this chapter is easy for me. Peter's high emotions and overconfidence resonates with my personality. And I do sense that service in LNP comes easier for me because I've been exposed to our way of life since I was a young boy. Therefore, navigating through our weekly meetings and checklists is something that I am used to doing. 

And with that familiarity, I am very vulnerable to serving others unreliant of God's grace and just powering through with my efforts. I am very conscious of this ever since because I want to do the Lord's work and not take credit. What I do is I try my best to give the spirit room to work. So when I lead worship or a prayer meeting, for example, I do my best to be guided by an outline but not follow a script. I pray to God that the Holy Spirit may come in and fill in for those moments that I did not prepare for. And may God's spirit work during these times when I rely on God.

To be honest brothers, I have a hard time giving the Holy Spirit room to work because I'm afraid that I'm not prayerful enough to be sensitive to His whispers. I'm afraid of silence whenever I call upon Him. But the Lord never fails and has never failed me. He has always been with me in every work done for Him. 

My ritual whenever I'm asked to lead or to serve is that I take time to ask God what is His Will for me. I rarely recycle my talks or exhortations with the fear of using them as templates. And though I borrow elements and portions, I ask God how best can I deliver this talk on this specific time.

Brothers, I seek support from all of you by giving me sincere feedback in the work that I do for community. That I may be accountable to all of you by being dependent on God's Spirit whenever I do His work. I pray that the Lord uses me but I remain humble in my place as God's worker. 

Hi Jordan,

I admire your humility in inviting the Holy Spirit to fill you and guide you in doing God’s work and serving His people. I can also sense your sincerity in the desire to grow in the area of service. Being in the community at a very young age is God’s gift to you. To prepare you well for such a time as this. Continue to extend your roots and tap on to the streams of living water.

Jeremiah 17:7-8:

“But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.

They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream.

It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green.

It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.”

Quote from James Labayo on February 29, 2024, 1:12 am

Quote from Noel Lugue on February 16, 2024, 12:00 am

1. One way to know if you are trusting in the Holy Spirit is if you trust in the Holy Spirit. 

It is during the Pandemic that I came to know more deeply  about who the Holy Spirit is into my life. That God can accomplish things thru me through the power of the His Spirit. In service , in mission, in serving Tahanan, in fund raising, etc. Thus, if I entrust to Him every thing I do, I trust that whatever the outcome , I have already humbly prayed for it  to the Holy Spirit , and I shall trust no matter what happens.

There are things that we do naturally because of our God given talents and strengths and we have to use them for His glory . That’s good. 

But relying on them has not been a Christian disposition. 

I can do all things in Him who strengthens me. 

2.  We have to watch out for our emotion’s stability. That if we bear fruit and successful, we remain humble before the Lord, 

that it  is by His grace and Spirit

that we are able to accomplish wonders and accomplishments. 

3. These questions has crossed my mind a lot of times . And I have learned something new :

We will never really know if our motives have been pure or not. 

If we are doing it on our own or not. 

Kapag ganito, we will also miss the joy of doing mission. 

Babalik ka sa Trust in the Lord. 

Pinagdasal mo succesful.

Pinagdasal mo palpak. 

Thank and Trust pa rin. 

4. -Let’s continue to  offer our  5 loaves and two fish to the Lord, including our imperfections. And He will bless it exponentially. 

- Be humble 

We strip ourselves of our experiences , talents and knowledge , when we come before God.  Then we can expect power from Him. 

- Pray unceasingly

- Be vigilant 

 

 

 

 

Noel,

Your reflection talks about trust in the Lord. There is a famous saying, "Tao lang kaya nagkakamali." However, let me share with you my take on being "Tao" and that is Trust And Obey (TAO). Tao tayo and we are created to respond as such to God's call and direction. Nowadays, when I am asked to do something out of my mold, e.g. reorganization of the MWGs, district and sector, I respond positively because ako ay TAO lamang.

 

 

 

Quote from James Labayo on February 29, 2024, 1:19 am

Quote from Sherwin Lao on February 19, 2024, 12:12 am

(1) How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

As a human with his own “free will”, it will always be tempting to act and do things according to our preferences and likings. Likewise, for a man who loves to plan on his own, it is hard to rely on others to accomplish things. That is exactly what God is asking us to do, not to rely on our own understanding but instead Trust in the Lord with all our heart. And in all our ways, acknowledge Him, and He will make our paths straight. When we find ourselves in a situation where we look/ expect for people to praise or admire us, then this could be a good signal that we are trusting in ourselves and not in the Holy Spirit. Because the Spirit of God makes us humble. Like little children seeking refuge and protection of their guardians. We cannot do things on our own, we need a higher being to teach us the ways and guide us into the right path. And only through our humility , we will find solace with our creator. But the question now is , how ready are we to take off from the driver seat and allow Jesus to take the wheel?

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

It is easy to remember God whenever we are down. We may pray for His mercy, and we pray for His forgiveness. And often times we ask Him to help us and carry us up to his care. But how about when we are succeeding? Do we have that eagerness to thank Him and be grateful? I vividly recall the story of Jesus healing the ten lepers, all of them acknowledged Jesus. They knew who Jesus was and His capabilities to heal them. They all cried out help and forgiveness. And when they were forgiven and healed by God, only one returned back and praise Him. I use this passage to always remind myself to be grateful. For God is my God during my ups and my downs.

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

Doing the same things and tasks for several years makes it a routine. It brings out familiarity and complacency. And that is very dangerous. It gives us a mindset where everything could be easy. We rely on our experiences and own knowledge and know-how , which will lead us into reliance on our own strength and capabilities. But Jesus is reminding us that we must always be careful, because complacency and pride await us. As Peter also reminds us in 1 Peter 5:8, Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Antidote for pride is humility. In all times, be humble. Because we are nothing compared to the greatness of our God.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

I value the feedback from my leaders. I believe leaders in the community were anointed by God to guide, guard and provide. They are chosen and hand-picked by God to shepherd His flock and empower them all together. So I humble myself to be taught. I continue to acknowledge that my spirituality is always a work in progress. I seek God’s grace through my brothers and sisters in the community. I know that alone, I cannot make it. But to journey with faithful brothers and sisters will enable me to grow more my faith in God.

Sherwin, you have always acknowledged that your are a "work in progress" and that openness to the Lord allows His Spirit to work in you. Stay the course, brother!

 

 

 

Quote from James Labayo on February 29, 2024, 1:29 am

Quote from Alan Santos on February 13, 2024, 4:48 pm

• How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?
  1. Each one of us has his own competence, capabilities and resources that we are good at, many are good at leading gatherings and prayer meetings, I however would rather serve in the background. Preparing for a district gathering or worship is something I would rather not do. I guess it’s really lifting everything up to the Lord, allowing the Holy Spirit to guide you and trust that all will be well with the preparations that was done.
• We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?
  1. The danger of pride thinking that we succeeded on our own capacity, seeking/expecting self-glory and praise.
• How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?
  1. Serving as Sector Servant & Treasurer, there are occasions when my self-righteousness takes over and my patience is tested. It is during these times that I stop whatever I’m doing and come before the Lord to ask for forgiveness and guidance.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

1. I continue to give thanks to my brothers who continue to guide me and at times, exhort me. Their advice is truly invaluable. An open mind and an open heart is what I seek and give to my fellow leaders.

Alan, thank you for your reflections. I have not seen you lead a prayer meeting and exhort the body during worship.  If it happened already, Praise God! May He continue to empower you in everything that you do.

 

 

 

Quote from Dennis Sulit on February 29, 2024, 1:49 pm

Quote from MarYo Galvez on February 10, 2024, 11:48 pm

How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

Personal indicators in trusting in the spirit for me is when I: 1) say yes to an urgent or unfamiliar service; 2) seek advise from peers and other senior leaders; 3) longer prayer time; and 4) call for fasting. As long as it is clear with that saying YES is a product of prayer or trust in the Lord, I am certain to use 110% effort and abilities.      

We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

The pitfalls of discipleship bearing fruit for me are: 1) false courage of taking on more roles in service (“Kaya ko pa yan, ako na rin diyan”); 2) expectation of the same fruitfulness experience in fellow leaders or members (“nung naranasan ko din yan ito ginawa ko); and 3) consulting less and trust more on your own strengths (“proven naman na diskarte ko”).   

How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

I am thankful right now for moments when I am asked to say “yes” to a service or calling because it automatically leads me to a conversation with Him therefore a constant need for His presence. This is a better life than the first years of my adult life with no religion, no god, no fear of the consequences in life.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

Giving honest feedback especially among brothers is a kind of support I greatly appreciate in the community.  

Salamat Yo for your very practical and relatable wisdom in trusting in the Holy Spirit and on the pitfalls of discipleship bearing fruit. Napaisip tuloy ako kung dapat ko pa ituloy itong Fireside Chat Forum. (Joke!)

Kidding aside you have shown wisdom and maturity that comes from years of being immersed in the Holy Spirit and we are blessed to share in your experience and candor. Hoping for your honest support. Feedback pa more bro!

Quote from Dennis Sulit on February 29, 2024, 2:10 pm

Quote from Dom Hormigos on February 20, 2024, 10:47 pm

(1) How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

- Trusting in the Holy Spirit is not totally relying in your own strength but also relying on what God can do or will do or directing us to do. It is not bad to rely on our own strength but the tendency in doing this, is it sometime tempts us to fully acknowledge that it was all from us or about us. I remember that when God chooses his servantse, they are mostly not based on what they think they can do but what God believes they can do. So it entails believing that we can do more with the Holy Spirit on our side.

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

- Danger is not acknowledging that God is at work and the enemy’s lie that it was all about us. In some other instances, the enemy might even test our decisions. It then requires us to be firm and fully trust in God no matter what. 

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

- Most of the time, this happens when we are assigned to serve in areas where we are really good at. It is so easy to rely in ones self

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

Thank you Dom for reminding me to always rely on God and to acknowledge Him at all times. We often turn to the Lord in times of need but we need to constantly trust and acknowledge God especially in times of blessing lest we become so caught up with the gifts rather than the gift-giver. May we never stray from the grace of the Holy Spirit as we journey together as servants of Christ.

Quote from Dennis Sulit on February 29, 2024, 2:35 pm

Quote from Brien Myles Villamiel on February 10, 2024, 9:22 am

Since the pandemic, I have journeyed within myself as a take a path leading to help strengthen relationships & family ties. Over the past months, I have (humbly) realized that despite my own insecurities & failures, there is Grace!

My upbringing, being raised in a catholic school, being exposed to both a charismatic and contemplative spirituality which complements one another leading me to be a "contemplative in action" has been a source of strength and encouragement. It has also led me to the realization that "I can do anything [only] through Him who strengthens me".

Just like Peter, I too am only human... but being human allows us to grow, correct ourselves and mature. 

Part of my self-journey is that I often find myself falling into the trap of "dapat"... dapat ganito yan... Shouldn't he (or she) know it supposed to be this & that. By falling into "Dapat ganito", I fail to make room for God's grace to take over. I end up judging others when I may not even know the circumstances behind it... which could even allow me to sin. 

What support do I need & can give? There is a statement shared to us growing up, "Iron sharpens Iron". I believe by being surrounded by such great cloud of witnesses, who are imperfect like me and yet strive to live Faith-filled lives, is support enough. Hope you can extend patience & understanding and do not hesitate to call my attention on matters for improvement as fellow leaders & sojourners, as will do I.

Brien you and your entire family have always been a model of faithfulness and grace to my family. We are blessed and inspired how you have responded to the call of the Lord.

I can relate to being contemplative in action (in a bad way) and the dapat trap both of which reflect my old nature but which I continue to experience in the present. Naming it and calling it out and bringing it to the light is our protection from the darkness.

We are blessed to be a brotherhood of the light. I agree that this brotherhood of imperfect servants is blessed when we rely on our perfect God. I likewise pray for your support and feedback as we are continue to be  formed in this call to service for our Lord.

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There are instances and experiences in my life that at the end of it, is just bending my knee rather than exerting effort on my own. I learned too in those times that my capacity is limited but most of it is for me to learn.
I must admit that I still rely on myself or forget to seek the Holy Spirit on things I need to do, with God's grace I am humbled and being corrected.

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The privilege of being entitled at different levels minsan ang dating is arrogant na, especially when I notice someone failed my expectations.

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When I think that all is going well and running smoothly according to my standards and receiving affirmation about it might get into my head BUT with people close to me I am reminded to be grounded.
Also in some instances, I seek or approach brothers who can share their insights on the tasks at hand and seek prayers for it too.

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Being surrounded by brothers of the same way of life is a big help and has reinforced  my Christian life, kumbaga it became a shield and sort of check & balance on how I live out my life in and out of the community

Hi Gani,

I agree, we should constantly take the stance of true humility and seek the Holy Spirit for the grace to do God’s work and bear fruits that last.

And indeed, being surrounded with brothers and fellow leaders supports our Christian life both with the uplifting when we’re troubled and the reminders when we need it. As Proverb 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

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(1) How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

One indicator of trusting in the Holy Spirit for me is when I see the manifestation of the fruit of the Spirit – love, joy, peace, etc. in the service. When I am trusting in my own strengths, I tend to be more anxious or less loving.  

I guess the operative word is “rely”. We may utilize our strengths, but to “rely” implies dependence on that (which may not be dependable), which should only be for God.

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

Aside from looking too much at ourselves, one other danger is to start focusing on the success and the fruit, such that it becomes the ultimate end of the service. This may result in not acknowledging the Lord, having the end justify the means, becoming the only measure of success, or being discouraged when the service “fails”.

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

Very real. Thinking about it now, I may not lift up routinary or administrative type of work. Sometimes in my rush or busyness, I may say a hurried prayer but my mind may not be into it. Or I may ignore a potential sense from the Lord and rely on my logic instead.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

Prayers for one another. Encouragement, exhortation and reminders. Good examples to witness.

Hi Joseph,

I agree with you that relying on the Holy Spirit bears fruit of the Holy Spirit. Your reflections remind me of John 15:4 verse which says, “Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.”

God bless you bro!

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Quote from Gary Bogarin on February 10, 2024, 5:08 pm

(1) How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

• When I know that I prayed about it and that I expressed to the Lord that His will be done. Trusting that His Holy Spirit will guide me and allow me to follow His will at all times. Part of my daily prayer is for the Lord to grant me the grace to use the God-given strengths that I have (competency, capabilities, resources etc), to excel in what I plan and do for His greater glory.

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

• We need to watch out for the time when we start feeling that it is because of our own doing that we are able to succeed and bear fruit. When we stop acknowledging God as the ultimate giver and source and that we start feeling we do not need Him in order to succeed. When we start relying on ourselves and leave God out of the equation.

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

• I acknowledge everyday during my prayer time that I am nothing without God. I acknowledge that I need the guidance of the Holy Spirit at all times. Maybe when I was younger (before community), I may have the tendency to rely on my own capabilities, confident that I alone can make things happen for myself. But all that has changed now.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

• By having servant leaders in the community who are role models, worthy to emulate and are tangible examples of how God works in our midst. By having brothers and sisters to serve side by side with, giving and receiving feedback to one another in order to grow in our faith and service to our brothers and sisters in community.

I have learned from you to do this and would want to start the day with Prayer similar – “I acknowledge every day during my prayer time that I am nothing without God. I acknowledge that I need the guidance of the Holy Spirit at all times.”

Thanks Gary B.

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(1) How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources?

I feel that it is necessary to call upon on our own strengths to deliver a job. But to rely solely on your own strengths and not acknowledge the Holy Spirit in the work that you do and accomplish is foolish.

For a talk, I lay the groundwork and objectives of what I understand is needed. I pray for it while I work on the project. It takes days to “complete” the work and even a few minutes before the event, I pray and make last minute changes. I know the Holy Spirit has worked thru me when I discover that the end product, “the message” is different from my initial personal thought.

There is usually a fear that envelopes me when I start developing the task and at these times, this is because I rely only on my strengths. Once the talk gets to its final stages, I feel a certain calmness bec I surmise the Holy Spirit has provided the wisdom to the message. At this point I feel free and comforted.

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

There is always an unavoidable  amount of pride in doing a task well and being acknowledged by your peers. I believe that it is part of God’s gift for your obedience. It becomes dangerous when a worker enjoys the acknowledgement so much that he works for the purpose of being praised. I always remind myself while being humanly proud of the accomplishment, that this is God’s work and without the Holy Spirit I could not have completed the task.

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

The possibility of relying solely on your own strengths is real in the Christian service that we do. In as much as I would hope the Holy Spirit to be involved in all the activities and tasks of my daily life, in fact, I do not. I do the secular tasks on my own and unfortunately that behavior may spill into my Christian service. Actually it should be the other way around. Prayer before action is the only way to prevent it from happening. A prayer pause is always necessary.

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

Prayers for each other is important. Sharing your difficulties with your faith makes the struggle real while sharing your triumphs are encouraging. Patience and understanding of each other is comforting. We are called at different times of our lives and for different tasks and roles. Let’s all walk, accepting of our different paces, but leaving for each other marks to follow, all towards the same goal.

Usually, I ask for help.  And then do the project myself.  Knowing full well that I prayed for it at the start.  N more reviews kaya while presenting the project or delivering the talk, I suddenly see the flaws.  But in your case, you make a draft by yourself.  Then pray and ask what needs to be improved or is the message same as the Lord’s. I’ll try this format.

Nice to know this too - There is usually a fear that envelopes me when I start developing the task and at these times, this is because I rely only on my strengths. Once the talk gets to its final stages, I feel a certain calmness bec I surmise the Holy Spirit has provided the wisdom to the message. At this point I feel free and comforted. 

And I should remember this all the time that it’s not for me to be praised. - I believe that it is part of God’s gift for your obedience. It becomes dangerous when a worker enjoys the acknowledgement so much that he works for the purpose of being praised.

Lastly, A PRAYER PAUSE IS ALWAYS NECESSARY.

There’s so much that I have learned from you.  So much wisdom here.  Salamat.

Tnx Gary M.

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My reflections on these:

(1) How do you know when you’re trusting in the Holy Spirit, and when you’re trusting in your own strengths? Is it a bad thing to rely on your own strengths, especially if you know you have the competence, capabilities and/or resources? 

I don't know if at all times, i trust the Holy Spirit and honestly, there are many times that i forget to ask for God's guidance in certain circumstances of my life. I love making a sign of the cross without any special reason as it became a habit for me (even when i was young) to do it as a way to remind myself to remain connected with Him but does that mean that i am trust Him at all times with that action?

I don't think that relying on my strengths is a bad thing although i always remind myself that i am nothing if not for the Lord who gave me everything. I could still vividly recall the 1:1 i had with God when i was starting in my career and i had nothing in my pocket (zero, bankrupt pa nga since i have credit card to pay). I already sensed that God would deliver me from my current impoverished situation, and He did. Who am i then to deserve what i have in life if not for the Lord? If i sense that pride sips into my life, i would always go back to my struggles and how God delivered me from those difficult moments.

(2) We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

Yabang and pride as if it was my own effort that made me successful. Complency is another matter since "i've been there and done that" that i think i can handle service with an ease without trusting the Lord and seeking His direction first. 

(3) How real is this possibility in your current state of service: that there would be moments when we behave as if we don’t need Jesus in our lives? Like, in what situations had you (before), or might you (in the future), be confident on your own capabilities, and how are you prone to taking matters into our hands?

This still happens to me even if i've been in the community more than half of my life....my failure to make it a default that when things are not going well with my service, i should seek Jesus first before finding another solution. Most of the time, i would think of my solutions to the problem or analyze what went wrong or what could i've done better to avoid the problem i was facing.....i would only seek Jesus once i realize that my solutions are not fit or impossible to do (feeling superman!)

Finally, what kind of support can you seek from, and give to, your fellow leaders to ensure that our faith and trust in the Lord is solid, and so that we can live out this exhortation by Paul: 1 Cor. 15:58 – “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.”

Needless to state the obvious about the importance of prayer time (ie. setting aside a specific time) but i believe prayer time must be "all the time" meaning, keeping Him in our hearts and minds especially when we become engrossed with what we are doing (like our work/job). Making a sign of the cross for me is something that i will continue to do even probably when get to my senior years (imagine me making one after leaving a CR inside a mall and people will see me making that sign of the cross, weird man! well it doesn't matter to me since everytime i do that, i am reminded to connect with God even for a short second or so and  it helps me remain grounded on Him

Tnx Gary C..

I agree that its YABANG or PRIDE of ours are the things to watch out for.  But COMPLACENCY is anew learning for me.  Come to think of it, it really does make us think its easy and a short cut already since weve done it before and just rely on our experience.

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2.We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

The danger of pride. We have to be aware that the devil will use pride to destroy us. I have witnessed many times that the people who serve in the church have the tendency to be boastful when they have accomplished something in the ministry.  They become resistant to feedback and constructive criticism. 

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1. I think it is very normal for any human being to look at his strengths and capabilitites in any given situation, but ultimately, I always lift this up to the Lord and allow Him to guide me because my strength and knowledge are not enough.  It is also very common to be discouraged if things don't turn out well,  and the more I call on the Holy Spirit for grace to fill me in.
2. The danger of success is the feeling of self-gratification, and believing that it was all because of one's own work.  We need to constantly guard our thoughts by openly sharing the gift of the Holy Spirit, and the contribution of others.
3. I think i'm not in a situation to believe that I dont need Jesus because of confidence on my own capabilities.  My current service requires much time to pray and pastoral work, which i cannot possibly do without the grace from God.  It would probably have been different if i were still the district servant, where much of the work are administrative, and i would have probably fall into the trap of thinking i can easily do the tasks without much help.
4. I think the best service that one can give and at the same time ask from brothers and sisters is to pray for one another and be present for one another, thru witnessing in living out our faith.    

 

Yes I agree bro, it is normal for us to look at our strengths and abilities in order to fulfill the tasks at hand, what matters most is that we acknowledge where these strengths and capabilities came from. We thank the Lord for He has bestowed on all of us these gifts and talents. It is but fitting that we use these gifts and talents to give Him back the glory and honor.

God bless your service bro!

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Quote from Von Cassanova on February 22, 2024, 9:45 am

We know that the Holy Spirit empowers us to do what God has mandated us to do. But what danger do we face when we start succeeding and bearing fruit, and what are we to watch out for?

The challenge to people like us is the reality of spiritual warfare. The devil is always there to harass us. Sabi nga ni Brother Francis Nob "Ang tao na nalapit sa liwanag ay lumalaki ang nakasunod na anino". 

It is not easy to follow God in this kind of world. We need constant prayers for the Holy Spirit intervention and protection against evil influences.

Agree bro, indeed our main weapon and shield from the Evil One is prayer. In our service, we will always experience harassments, it is expected. What we do when we are confronted with these harassments is what is vital.  Proverbs3:5-6 " Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your understanding".

God bless you Von!